Well I am Chinese.I would like to tell you that what kind of man we Chinese girls like. First of all,the guy might have no good appearance and physique,but he must be clean and dressed up properly. Secondly,he might not be high educated and so-called COOL but should be gentle and good-mannered. Thirdly,we don t need sweet talks and expensive gifts.Flowers are good,while empressement is better. If you indeed like/love a Chinese girl ,then it is easy to aproach her.Just walk close by her ,stare at her eyes gentlely and tell her your affection. If she would not say NO and just smile at you,congratulations,you get the chance. If she would say nothing and turn about ,don t hesitate to follow her and say what you want to say again.You might get the chance. If she would say NO --don t worry ,you have very tiny chance to hear of this embarrassing word directly from Chinese girls because they don t want to hurt anybody although they don t accept your love-- to you and ignore your sincere pursues all the way,basically ,you can stop your romantic story. Hope this can help you.Good luck.