Everyone goes through periods when they’re not feeling sexually amped. That might be related to a number of factors: Stress at work, a lapse in confidence, a hormonal shift, depression, or just plain exhaustion. But the sobering truth might be that she’s not just not picking up what you’ve been laying down lately. Do some careful probing and rule out those other reasons, then concentrate on changing up your game—perhaps by mastering the 25 tips that will turn you into a sex god overnight.
Although she might not want to discuss your performance to protect your feelings, she might end up critiquing other things about you as a proxy. Perhaps she’ll remark on your appearance, how you act, or whether you’re doing your share of household activities properly. Those little things annoying her about you wouldn’t seem so bad if you stepped back, took control of the situation, and start giving your best regularly.
When a woman knows what she wants and what she likes in the bedroom, it’s a very, very good thing. However, if she starts to micromanage your moves, it could be a sign that you’re not listening to her or her body and she’s not feeling satisfied. A bit of guidance is great, but if it’s starting to feel like she’s constantly teaching you how to have sex with her from scratch, you’re probably bombing in the sack. Though if you find yourself in the reverse position, so to speak, (i.e., you find yourself less than satisfied), learn how to turn your wife into a sex goddess.