Combine what I m about to say with what Sense said in his/her response. What are your expectations for a perspective partner? Many people have unrealistic expectations when it comes to finding a mate. They are looking for the perfect partner, with no baggage, a perfect body and face to go with it. The reality is, everyone has flaws, which are you willing to live with? Are you giving those that you meet a chance? I believe our purpose hear on earth is to be challenged, learn and grow in everything we do. Each of us has a life set of challenges that we are to learn and grow from. For example, some have it easy with money, but challenged by love. Some have it easy with love, but challenged by finances. It s up to you how you choose to overcome this challenge. If your current strategy isn t working, try something different. EDIT: Possible things to consider OTHER than just seeing a pretty face: 1. willing to date someone with a ex boyfriend as close current friends? 2. do you mind if she has a kid or 2, or if she s divorced? 3. She has a pretty face, but an 11th toe on her foot, or overweight? 4. Does she have to believe in monogamy, marriage between man and woman only? 5. Does she want to have children, how many? 6. Does she provide for herself, her own finances? 7. Does she let her family control her decisions? 8. Is she the same religion? 9. Do you mind if she is a stripper? 10. She s had sex with 100 or more men? 11. She s perfect, but you find out she has herpes, or another STD? 12. She s loving, and kind but a compulsive liar? 13. she s 15 years older than you? 14. She s been to prison 3 times? 15. She used to be a lesbian? 16. Smokes marijuana when she hangs out with her friends? 17. Watches Jersey Shore obsessively and talks like she s from Jersey? 18. Was emotionally, physically, or sexually abused as a child and suffers from PTSD? 19. Wears too much make up? 20. She s illiterate? This list could go on all night, but I hope you get the point. Think about what you want from a potential mate, and what you will not tolerate. There are dating sites that could help you such as eharmony or match.com, plentyoffish.com is free. Good luck!