well, I will say I met my husband on udate.com. I dont even know if its still around(7 yrs ago).. I feel bad to say this, but we are having problems ( married 6 yrs ).I didnt know he lied on his profile until I married him. he wrote all sorts of good stuff, which made me choose him over the other guys on there ), & over my ex fiance ( we tried to try it again ). My husband said he was all about the sex, and romantic, etc.. and lie..lie..sad, anyways.. I love to see the commercials on eharmony.com.I also heard that they actually-get this.. deny/reject people to become a client, and have a profile.means I think they do background search. its sort of weird, and id never do it, cuz Im married , but they say at end of commercials. " go ahead- youre aloud to look .I think it s cute.. Id highly recommend eharmony, again, because they do reject people. Its hard these days meeting mr right . . I know I met hubby, left my family, life, job of 12 yrs, and moved from Ny to ohio.Its very sad. we have a beautiful honeymoon baby9she is MY LIFE), so other wise I wud be out of this marriage all ready.please dont let that happen to you. God Bless, and remember you can do a free background chk on people too. If he has nothing to hide, after a few weeks, get his ss #, drivers license, and whether you pay or have someone in family/friend hook you up w. legal background, chk him out b4 you marry him. & make sure he lifts you up & placies you ona a pedistal YOU DESERVE Ok, my husband didnt have a background w. law,,but his family surely didnt tell me, he wasnt at all affection. He is a GREAT provider, but thats not the whole thing in life. I thought I cud change that(no affection) after, not change him, but for us , ya know. sorry, rambling, guess I just dont want someone to hurt like me , when they go to a site, and think they found mr right. God bless. ~me