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Recently, a colleague of mine, a successful psychologist in her mid-30s, confided in me about an ongoing problem she faces in her dating life: She feels that she’s simply too tall for most men, standing at almost six feet. The issue she struggles with is the same issue many other tall women deal with as they look for a good romantic partner.

When we talk about tall women, there’s what many people think of as ‘sexy-tall,’ the range of height where women are, say, 5’8” or 5’9”. These women have the best of all possible worlds: They’re tall to the point that it’s easier to stay thin or carry weight well, but not so tall that they face the stigma of men not wanting want to date a tall woman. Tall women who experience romantic discrimination the most are approximately 5’10” and taller.

If you take an informal poll of men, you’ll quickly see that many men have little or no interest in dating a tall woman. Extremely tall women are often treated as if they are freakishly tall or Amazonian, as if their height is some sort of mistake or genetic mutation. What’s more, many very tall women engage in a range of behaviors to diminish the impact of their height in order to appeal more to men. For some, they rarely wear heels – even if they like doing so; for others, they may make self-deprecating comments about their height in a defensive effort to fit in with what men want.


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You might have seen being a tall man as something to be ashamed of, but no longer! Boost your self-esteem and attention-grabbing confidence by keeping these five simple things in mind:

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You should feel good about being a tall man in today’s society! There are some real advantages to it, all of which you can make work in your favor with a little bit of perseverance and a positive attitude. What do YOU like about being a tall man? Rued Mr. Tallsome and founder of a Copenhagen based video agency. 6'8" // 204 cm.

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I am only 6′ 3″ but I have long legs and arms. I am in my mid-70s now. When I joined the military in the early ’60s, they had to custom-make my raincoat. Not because I am big around, I only weighed 175 at the time. The only business suits that work for my are custom-made and my tailor took my picture before sending measurements to Hong Kong. He said the guys cutting the suit would not believe otherwise. Suit fitted perfectly.

Height does not matter at all its all a matter of ones perspective

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3 months is long enough to get addicted to the fantasy called "infatuation". It is not love. Love, real love, does not develop until at least 1-2 years of steady frequent dating. You were only with her 3 months. You never had time to see the reality of it and for your fantasy to fall apart. (often, when the fantasy falls apart, so does the relationship.. but sometimes love starts to grow and replaces the wild excitement and addictive quality of infatuation.). It should only take 6 months to get over her. If we fail to adjust to a change in our life, we have what psychologists call an "Adjustment Disorder". What that means is that if you haven t figured out how to get over someone in 6 months, you probably won t ever figure it out on your own. In which case, you need to get some counseling so you CAN learn how to get over her. If you want to get over her, start by writing her out of your life. No more being around her, and certainly no more having sex with her. Also, understand that when a couple is compatible they do NOT break up. Problems always come up, but usually not until they have been dating for at LEAST 2 years.. if problems come up before then, that is a very bad omen for the relationship. But couples who CAN make it work DO make it work. They do not "part ways" or break up. So breaking up with her means that you two never ARE going to be able to make it work as a couple. She is your heroin. You are addicted to her, and she makes you suffer. Be kind to yourself. Do not spend the rest of your life in this misery. Get a grip on yourself and get some therapy so you can learn the tools of cognitive-behavioral change.. and then use those tools, and within 6 months you will have her out of your system and be happy. Take care of yourself because no one else will.. especially not her. Psychologists warn us that the stronger the "chemistry" in the first while, the worse the relationship will be. Your chemistry is "off the chart", and this is an extremely toxic relationship the two of you have with each other. Notice that she focuses on how YOU love HER. In other words, she is self-centered and selfish.. she doesn t care how SHE makes YOU feel. Oh, she will never make you happy.